Why is it that some people see sex in anything and everything?
I came across a post on an "anti-paedophile" blog recently that provides a prime example.
The writer was working herself up at a post on Boychat, here, in which a boylover described how he loved his Young Friend, who it seemed loved hugging and holding hands.
The "anti" decided that, despite a complete lack of evidence, the BL was just a hair'sbreadth away from forcibly raping the boy! Where do these people get their ideas? She said "the boy is not asking to be molested" - which of course is true, but there was no suggestion he was. She also said "he doesn't want you" - which is obviously untrue from the description.
I wonder what causes this obsession with sex and molestation? I have come across it before - usually in "anti" writings - and can't help feeling that these people really ought to see someone. In my experience, it would take a hundred paedophiles to generate as much sexual obsession as one "anti".
I suppose one should feel sorry for them really, if they see sexual overtones in such innocent activities as hugging or holding hands. I can honestly say I don't know anyone who can't do these without leading to something else. I do wonder how they behave in their day-to-day life - do they put skirts on the piano legs, too?
I came across a post on an "anti-paedophile" blog recently that provides a prime example.
The writer was working herself up at a post on Boychat, here, in which a boylover described how he loved his Young Friend, who it seemed loved hugging and holding hands.
The "anti" decided that, despite a complete lack of evidence, the BL was just a hair'sbreadth away from forcibly raping the boy! Where do these people get their ideas? She said "the boy is not asking to be molested" - which of course is true, but there was no suggestion he was. She also said "he doesn't want you" - which is obviously untrue from the description.
I wonder what causes this obsession with sex and molestation? I have come across it before - usually in "anti" writings - and can't help feeling that these people really ought to see someone. In my experience, it would take a hundred paedophiles to generate as much sexual obsession as one "anti".
I suppose one should feel sorry for them really, if they see sexual overtones in such innocent activities as hugging or holding hands. I can honestly say I don't know anyone who can't do these without leading to something else. I do wonder how they behave in their day-to-day life - do they put skirts on the piano legs, too?
3 comments:
Such obsession with sex is usually a sign of past abuse.
There are some people who, though their abuse was many yaers ago, feel unable - or unwilling - to leave it behind them, and so see abuse everywhere.
I work with abusers and victims, and have seen this trait often.
Your constant justification of child-grooming is sickening. Your kind are a plague upon this world.
This anonymous comment is a prime example of what i meant. The writer is unable to conceive of innocent activity without sexual overtones.
This is not "child-grooming", something which I do not and would not attempt to justify.
Such "hit-and-run" comments are never followed up, of course; the writers are unable to actually provide any sensible argument to support their statements.
LeX
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