Showing posts with label child abuse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label child abuse. Show all posts

Friday, 31 August 2018

How social media companies encourage child abuse

Lately, some of the principal advocates against child sexual abuse have been paedophiles and other minor-attracted people. Some of these people were also survivors of abuse. In their articles, blog posts and online comments, they explained why sexual activity between adults and children is wrong and how best to prevent it, which importantly includes helping people who might be so inclined to deal with their feelings in a healthy way.

I am driven to wonder, however, if the various internet media companies actually want to prevent abuse. Not long ago, "micro-blogging" site Tumblr, part of the Oath/Verizon stable, removed a number of "anti-contact" MAP and MAP-sympathetic accounts, including those of young people who may be coming to terms with their feelings or even trying to analyse their own abuse.

Then chat host Discord removed a chatroom run by Virtuous Paedophiles, whose tagline is "sex with children is wrong and always will be", giving as a reason that the forum was "against their community guidelines". It wasn't, of course, but they refused to consider any appeal.

Publishing site Medium, which is more of a magazine than a blogging site, had a very good segment called "Paedophiles about Paedophilia", with articles not only by anti-abuse writers with paedophilia, but also mental health professionals and researchers. This entire section was removed, along with most of its authors, with no explanation. Writers who write about paedophilia as an "outsider", such as mainstream journalists, remained.

Twitter frequently removes people who write about paedophilia in anything but a negative way or identify as MAPs.

In all these cases, the removals seem to be based on who the writers are rather than what they write. Non-MAP writers such as psychologists do not get cut off, even though what they write is much the same as the MAPs. It's also notable that articles which promote abuse, violence including murder, hatred and even child pornography are still to be found.

The common factors in all those fora and accounts that are removed are (a) they are (mainly) written by people who identify as minor-attracted; (b) they are working to prevent child sexual abuse; and (c) they propose that support and help for paedophiles who haven't offended is the best way to ensure they don't.

Though most writers are MAPs, not all are. Others are abuse survivors, who have found the usual methods of prevention-after-the-fact wanting. A few are young people just realising where their attractions lie and need help in coming to terms with it.

Removing these various support networks has the effect that people who previously had a large amount of peer support and in some cases group therapy have suddenly been left with nothing. This will without a doubt cause some of them to suffer a significant reduction in mental health, into depression, into isolation, and away from anyone who might be able to do them any good. They will - and the idea is not illogical - wonder if people actually want them to offend.

This puts children at risk. Some people might find solace in child pornography, since they will find it easier to get hold of than useful support. Others will, perhaps after some period of time, go further and find a child to abuse. The most dangerous people are the ones who think they've got nothing left to lose.

I will say it again: by removing the support from people who need it, Children are being put in danger. Do the web sites really think they are somehow doing good for society by pandering to the gutter press and the right-wing foam-at-the-mouth types instead of helping people prevent child abuse? Or do they just not care?

Monday, 14 May 2012

What about the children?

Browsing the pedo-hate sites, as one does from time to time in the vain hope that they might say something intelligent, I noticed something which seemed a little odd: they hardly ever mention the children.

For writers who claim to abhor and campaign against abuse of children (as we all should), the subject is ignored, except in passing as the occasional part of a report on an alleged offender.

Despite claiming to be "committed to the safety and well-being of all children", the writers are much more concerned with character assassination, schadenfreude - including waxing positively ecstatic over deaths or near fatalities - and demonstrating their severe lack of knowledge.

What about actual child abuse? The abhorrent cases that make the news, and the appalling huge number that don't? What about the 8-month-old (yes - a baby!) in Malaysia kicked and punched by her mother, simply, it seems, to make her cry? The 4-year-old in New York made to go out in the snow in his underwear? The 10-year-old in Dallas who died after being deprived of water by his parents? And what about the sickening case of the 15-year-old in London, who was tortured and beaten to death because his mother "thought he was possessed"? I could go on, but that is distressing enough.

What are those "committed to the safety and well-being of all children" doing about the appalling amount of abuse inflicted on children practically right under their noses? Not a lot, it would seem; they are too busy getting hung up about other people's supposed sexual proclivities and shouting a lot on the internet.

Monday, 5 September 2011

Boy killed for wetting the bed

There are many solutions proposed for children who wet the bed, but this one won't appear in any parenting book - prevent them drinking anything so they won't produce any liquid.

Jonathan James of Dallas has a night-time problem, so his father and stepmother decided to punish him by with-holding water and forcing him to stand in front of the window with the sun beating down on him. Even when he had soemthing stuck in his throat he was forbidden to drink.

When he eventually collapsed and was taken to hospital, the doctors were simply told "he's sick".

This is a prime example of people who should never be allowed near children. Do they just hate kids, are they mentally ill, or just naturally nasty? And does it matter?

Read the who distressing story here.

Slightly luckier was a 9-year-old who was locked in a shed overnight by Mr and Mrs Arthur Warren of Greenville, Virginia; he was staying with them while his parents worked nights, and decided the best way to cure a bit of night-time incontinence was keep him out of the house altogether.

See here for the lowdown on this one.

What is it about people who mistreat children?

I can honestly say that I know not a single boylover or girl-lover would act in such a way.

Monday, 1 June 2009

Welcome new readers

Hello everyone.

I see that quite a few people have been looking in lately, so welcome to you all.

A lot of you come from the page supposedly about me on Wikisposure - it's a pity a lot of that is wrong, but never mind. Welcome anyway. I hope you find your visit informative.

A bit more worrying is that so many people are using search engines to look for things like "worst case of child abuse". Of course, the worst child abuse is that perpetrated on children like Baby P, tortured to death by his mother and her friends. It is difficult to imagine anything worse than that, though some - surely mentally ill - people seem to have no difficulty not only imagining it, but doing it.

Perhaps, if you found these pages looking for "worst child abuse", you could write in and says what you were looking for? It would put my mind at rest, at least.

Friday, 22 August 2008

The worst case of child abuse

... I've seen in a long time. I was crying by the time I got to the end of this article - which took some doing.

I have one question. Why, oh why, oh why was no action taken before?

The good news is that the girl has been rescued and seems to be doing well. Thank God.

http://www.tampabay.com/features/humaninterest/article750838.ece